Questions About Sado, the Tea Ceremony: Do You Enjoy Tea Ceremony on Birthdays?
The other day, one of my guests asked me something interesting:
“Do you have tea ceremonies on birthdays or family celebrations?”
Many visitors to Japan might imagine that the tea ceremony is part of everyday family celebrations.
In reality, the tea ceremony is usually something we share with fellow practitioners, teachers, friends, or guests who appreciate the experience.
In my own family, everyone enjoys matcha. Whenever I prepare a bowl of tea, they are always happy to drink it. Yet the practice of tea ceremony has mostly been something I experienced outside family life.
During the years I studied with my tea teacher, I practiced together with other students in the tea community, called shachu. We had regular lessons, and sometimes we practiced formal tea gatherings at our teacher’s home, where we also learned traditional kaiseki cuisine served before the tea. We also visited tea gatherings hosted by other tea teachers, each with their own atmosphere and style.
Perhaps a tea ceremony is a little like music or sports.
In some families, one person plays the violin while others simply enjoy listening. In others, one family member loves tennis while the rest prefer to watch and cheer. Tea ceremony has a similar feeling. It is an art form that people learn gradually over many years, discovering not only techniques, but also manners, and quiet communication.
Because of this, the tea ceremony in Japan is often shared among people who study or appreciate it together.
In my family, I am the only person who practices the tea ceremony. So our birthdays, anniversaries, celebrations, and memorial days are usually celebrated in other ways — with meals, conversation, and time together.
Of course, somewhere in Japan, there may be families who celebrate special occasions with a tea ceremony at the center of the day.
If you are one of them, I would love to hear your story.
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